How Can I Help? / What Will Help Me? 12 things to do when someone you know suffers a loss / 12 things to remember when you have suffered a loss (two in one book)
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  • How Can I Help? / What Will Help Me? 12 things to do when someone you know suffers a loss / 12 things to remember when you have
How Can I Help? / What Will Help Me? 12 things to do when someone you know suffers a loss / 12 things to remember when you have suffered a loss (two in one book)
James E. Miller
Manufacturer: Willowgreen Publishing
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 1885933193

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Held one way, this book is for those who are grieving. In 12 brief, easy-to-read chapters, to offers helpful suggestions for how one can move through one's grief in a healthy, healing way. Held the opposite way (so the back cover becomes the front cover), it's a book for those who want to help someone who is grieving. Its 12 succinct chapters offer positive, practical advice. This book is already in its fourth printing.

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars How Can I Help? / What Will Help Me? 12 things to do when someone you know suffers a loss / 12 things to remember when you have .......2006-07-09

Very helpful in my work with the dying and their families.
I Will Remember You
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I Will Remember You
Laura Dower
Manufacturer: Scholastic Paperbacks
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ASIN: 0439139619

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New emotions, new friends, and physical changes make the teen years hard enough to deal with, but when someone close dies, life as a teen can seem almost unbearable. I Will Remember You encourages young readers to explore the "long, winding tunnel" of the grieving process, to keep going in the face of terrible loss and sadness. Through stirring words by well-known personalities (E.B. White, Emily Dickinson, Rainer Maria Rilke, Dr. Seuss, Mother Teresa, Woody Allen, even Pooh and Piglet!), as well as from fellow teens who have lost a loved one, grieving teens can begin to take comfort that they're not alone.

Each chapter helps readers explore different aspects of grief, such as denial, ritual, remembering, mourning a stranger, and anniversary "aftershocks." Renowned grief counselor Elena Lister, M.D., offers advice based on her many years of professional experience, and author Laura Dower presents dozens of creative, helpful exercises to move through the experience of loss. As Dower writes in her preface, this book does not provide "the 'right' answers or tell you how or what to feel." Instead, it's more like a "grief map. It helps you to see the path, but it can't tell you where to go." One of the most useful (and impressive) elements of the book is the very sensitive section on what not to say to someone who is grieving (and possible responses to these statements): "You'll get over it. Do you want to tell me when?" "Your mother/father lived a full life. How do you define full?" Of course, Dower also includes a list of more thoughtful, appropriate statements: "I am sorry. How can I help?" "What was your relationship like?" With the gentle help of this guidebook, grieving teens may just make it a little farther through that long, winding tunnel. (Ages 13 and older) --Emilie Coulter

Book Description

Just as death is a part of life, grieving is a part of living. For teens, this can be a particularly painful lesson to learn. I WILL REMEMBER YOU is an inspirational and accessible guide to coping with loss. It includes personal stories of death and life from real teens, advice from a renowned grief counselor, and dozens of hands-on creative exercises to help teens move through their pain and sorrow . . . into tomorrow.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars An amazing book.......2004-02-16

I was 14 years old when my father passed away suddenly. My mom bought me this book about a month after he passed away. It helped me so much. It guided me through much of the first year or so. It was by my side when I went through the first easter, his birthday and my parents anniversary without him. I don't know what I would have done without this book. I would highly recommend this to any teen who has lost someone close to them. Or to any adult wanted to understand what teens go through after losing someone close.

5 out of 5 stars An Inspiring, Important and Beautifully-Done Book.......2001-07-19

I Will Remember You addresses one of the most-overlooked and difficult issues in growing up, offering readers inspiring and important ideas to deal with grief. Although this is a guidebook for teens, as a parent, I found the information incredibly helpful in helping my children understand the grieving process. Dower's accesssible, well-written passages--along with the real-life writing from teens--illuminates the feelings associated with getting through grieving. This is a terrific resource for parents, teachers, librarians and yes, teenagers.

5 out of 5 stars As if it spoke to me.......2001-06-07

My father died three years ago when I was thirteen. I have never read a book that depicts my feelings so accurately. It is ideal for any teen that is overcoming grief but also for any parent who wishes to understand the grief that their teenager is dealing with.

5 out of 5 stars Coming from a contributor.......2001-05-04

I was a contributor to this book and had known about this project a couple years ago when I wrote my piece. I wasn't sure what I was getting into. I thought it was probably just another Chicken Soup like book. However, I was wrong. This book is the most amazing thing I've seen for teens who are suffering with grief and at the time I was going through everything I would have given my soul for a book like this. I am really proud to have been a part of this project and I found it helpful even today. I hope a lot of grief stricken teens pick this book up. It is truly amazing.
What I Remember
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • a lively life
What I Remember
Millicent Garrett Fawcett
Manufacturer: University Press of the Pacific
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 1410211703

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The memoirs of noted political activist, Millicent Garrett Fawcett (1847-1929), who was the author of the 1870 "Political Economy for Beginners," a brief but wildly successful book. It set a contemporary record as a principles textbook for students, running through ten editions in 41 years. A vigorous promoter of education for women, she helped set up Newham College for women at Cambridge. In 1865 she heard a speech on women's rights made by John Stuart Mill, who deeply impressed her and she became one of his many loyal supporters.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars a lively life.......2000-04-12

This memoir is the best kind of history--the kind that makes you feel like you are having dinner with John Stuart Mill and Garibaldi. Millicent Garrett Fawcett did have dinner with these men,and others among the most interesting people of her time. One of the most prominent suffragists, she was also a political economist and writer. She and her husband Henry (who was a Liberal MP and a Cambridge professor--as well as a tireless activist for people who were blind, as he was from early manhood) were both passionate for politics and reform, and spent their seventeen years of marriage (before Henry's death at age 51) between Cambridge and London. Their daughter Philippa was an exceptional mathematician and the first woman to place above the "senior wrangler" at Cambridge, in 1890. Interesting family, interesting life, and Millicent is fun to read.
Business Networking Techniques for the Professional or, how do I get YOU to remember me and what it is that I do?
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    Bonnie Ausfeld
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    A detailed fast-track approach for successful networking. Stresses the importance of active-listening skills, professional development and how to obtain direct referrals. The book provides strategies that can be used to build successful business and personal relationships.
    Magazines I remember: Some pulps, their editors, and what it was like to write for them (Pulp vault pulp study)
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      Hugh B Cave
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        Gina Willner Pardo
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        What Little I Remember
        Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
        • The begining of the nuclear era.
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        What Little I Remember
        Otto Robert Frisch
        Manufacturer: Cambridge University Press
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        Otto Frisch took part in some of the most exciting developments of modern physics, including the discovery of nuclear fission -- he coined that term -- which led to atomic power and atomic weapons. Working on those weapons during World War II he met the scientist and organizer, Robert Oppenheimer, and the passionate maverick, Edward Teller, as well as the mathematical genius, John von Neumann, from whom he first heard about electronic computers, which were just coming into being.

        He was still a child when Einstein rose to fame and when Bohr devised his atomic model, based on Rutherford's discovery of the atomic nucleus; but later he met all those great scientists (and many others) and indeed worked for five years in Copenhagen under Bohr, whom he regarded as the deepest thinker among them. By vividly describing our growing knowledge of matter and energy he creates the background for his (mostly) affectionate pen portraits, enlivened by entertaining anecdotes, of the many scientists he met.

        He saw the first atom bomb explode 'like the light of a thousand suns', and later during his thirty years in Cambridge he saw the birth and growth of radioastronomy, and the unravelling of the double helix of heredity. Carefully chosen pictures -- some drawn by the author himself -- help in making the book enjoyable to scientists and non-scientists alike.

        Customer Reviews:

        5 out of 5 stars The begining of the nuclear era........1998-11-11

        "What little I remember" is the story of the nuclear era seen by O.R. Frisch, a physicist that explained the nuclear fission (with his aunt Lise Meitner, Hahn's collaborator). Frisch was involved in the discoveries of the quantum mechanics. He worked in Cambridge with Rutherford, in Copenhagen with Bohr and in Los Alamos with Oppenheimer. Book full of anecdotes about the men that made great the physics.

        4 out of 5 stars Delightful!.......1998-06-24

        A delightful book!

        Gives a very candid insight into the traits and personal characteristics of some of the scientific greats of the 20th century.
        87 and What I Can Remember
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          George Pickard , and Julia Matcham
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            Sue Halpern
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            Clyde's Reflections.  What I Did; What I Saw; What I Remember During My Ninety Years.
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              Clyde's Reflections. What I Did; What I Saw; What I Remember During My Ninety Years.
              Clyde Eddleman. Barker
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              FLIGHT OF PASSAGE: A TRUE STORY
              Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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              FLIGHT OF PASSAGE: A TRUE STORY
              Rinker Buck
              Manufacturer: Hyperion
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              Writer Rinker Buck looks back more than 30 years to a summer when he and his brother, at ages 15 and 17 respectively, became the youngest duo to fly across America, from New Jersey to California. Having grown up in an aviation family, the two boys bought an old Piper Cub, restored it themselves, and set out on the grand journey. Buck is a great storyteller, and once you get airborne with the boys you find yourself absorbed in a story of adventure and family drama. And Flight of Passage is also an affecting look back to the summer of 1966, when the times seemed much less cynical and adventures much more enjoyable.

              Book Description

              Writer Rinker Buck looks back more than 30 years to a summer when he and his brother, at ages 15 and 17 respectively, became the youngest duo to fly across America, from New Jersey to California. Having grown up in an aviation family, the two boys bought an old Piper Cub, restored it themselves, and set out on the grand journey. Buck is a great storyteller, and once you get airborne with the boys you find yourself absorbed in a story of adventure and family drama. And Flight of Passage is also an affecting look back to the summer of 1966, when the times seemed much less cynical and adventures much more enjoyable.

              Customer Reviews:

              5 out of 5 stars Captivating.......2007-08-26

              There are so few good aviation stories on the shelves. Most have a military focus or are technical in nature. Either are fine. However this story is beautifully written and at times, a laugh riot. Imagine two teens restoring a Piper Cub from the frame then flying it across the country. Rinker Buck recounts his experiences as a son and brother so well. I felt as if I was with them.

              I'm a student pilot and the book resonated with me and would for most pilots, I hope. However, I loaned it to a non-pilot and she was equally charmed by the story. Flying became the back story to a growing bond between brothers, conflict between a father and his sons and avacodos falling to the ground like little green bombs.

              5 out of 5 stars For flyers and non-flyer alike.......2007-05-13

              One of the best all around books I'v read in a long time. It's a personal family story as well as a flying story. As a pilot I loved it. My wife, a non pilot enjoyed it also.

              5 out of 5 stars This book is a prize for the whole family. .......2007-03-14

              First, everyone in our family, teens and adults loved this book. Then I began lending it out to friends, who lent it to friends, on and on, because they loved it so much! It's a miracle I got it back.
              It's a true story of family, adventure, and what "following a dream" actually looks like. The subplot about the "water bag" captures beautifully that funny tension between knowing your parent really doesn't fully get what your life is about and the knowing that even so they love you.

              5 out of 5 stars Pilot in Houston.......2006-12-10

              Having grown up not far from the Buck's and learning to fly at an early age with the help of a family member, I found this book to be not only well-written, but also very personally meaningful. Buck does a wonderful job of bringing the reader into the experience and describing the detail though his own eyes as a teenager. If you are are a pilot (and even if you are not) it may well inspire you to get your hands on a Piper Cub and traverse the country.

              5 out of 5 stars A delightful read.......2006-09-25

              This was a book that I bought in a bargain section and it turned out to be quite the bargain. It is a heart-warming tale with adventure and humor for everyone. The language at times was a little much and for this reason I would not recommend to young children. I don't think the author was necessarily attempting to make this book a comedy but he had me in stitches several times. I don't usually re-read books but this is one that I am looking forward to reading again and again in years to come.
              Flights of Passage: Recollections of a World War II Aviator
              Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
              • "Good Wars" Still Kill
              • Flights of Passage soars....
              • A realistic account of Americans going to war
              • an interesting read for adventure, history, people
              • Talk About Situational Irony!
              Flights of Passage: Recollections of a World War II Aviator
              Samuel Hynes
              Manufacturer: Penguin (Non-Classics)
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              He was a wide-eyed teenager when he left his Minnesota home in 1943 to learn to fly. By the end of World War II, he was a battle-worn Marine bomber pilot who'd survived more than a hundred missions in the Pacific. With stunning eloquence and breathtaking clarity, Samuel Hynes recalls those extraordinary years: the madness of war and the horror of death, the friendships forged in cockpits and gin mills, the wives and sweethearts left at home, and the wonder of flying-that exquisite harmony between pilot and machine aloft in the insubstantial air. More than a combat tale, this is the story of one man's remarkable rite of passage in that timeless world of innocence gone to war.

              Customer Reviews:

              4 out of 5 stars "Good Wars" Still Kill.......2005-09-11

              Watching planes fly over his Minneapolis home, young Samuel Hynes never imagined himself flying in one, let alone being a pilot. He never saw an ocean, yet before he turned 21, he would be flying and fighting over the largest of them. World War II was a transforming conflict in many ways. For Hynes, it was his ticket to a larger world.

              Not that he seems too happy for the experience. Yes, Hynes writes with humor, and some nostalgia, about his experiences fighting in the Pacific Theater with the Marines air wing in the last year of the war. Yet, when he describes his feelings about his return to civilian life as "the end of something that had been good, perhaps like the breaking up of a marriage," it feels odd and wrong.

              Hynes didn't see a lot of combat, but he saw a lot of waste, deadly waste, pilots in training killed attempting maneuvers, or else later on, lost at sea because they were lost in the clouds. There are attacks on a Japanese-held island tucked too deep behind Allied lines to threaten anyone. There's no glory in Samuel Hynes' war; even the deaths of Japanese foes are related with bitter resignation.

              Hynes writes of his and his comrades' struggle less in terms of victory than simple survival, doing what the military asks them and no more. Hynes mentions the film classics "Wings" and "Dawn Patrol," but there's more here of Joseph Heller's "Catch-22," where the carnage of World War II is played as a sick joke. Even the humor has that same acidic quality. When one pilot is lost at sea, only to be rescued, his comrades disguise their relief by pretending to have gotten rid of his belongings when he returns.

              The book is three-fourths over before Hynes reaches the only real battle he participated in, Okinawa. As he hops from post to post stateside, the narrative sometimes gets dull. But the overall tone of "Flights Of Passage is what makes it worth reading. With most war books, the focus is naturally on battles, or individuals who made some difference in the conflict. Hynes, a self-described small cog in giant machine, writes of the other side of war, its boredom, pettiness, infidelity, and creeping ennui. Danger, too, and tragedy, but in such small doses one can never be ready for them, not ready enough.

              While his style is dispassionate and nonjudgmental, I get the feeling Hynes didn't care much for what he saw of the war. It's not that he was a bad Marine, just not a warrior.

              His best sections involve the spurts of battle he did see, his impressions of flying the different combat planes of the era. Corsairs were prized as beauties but prone to spinning out during landing approaches, while the Hellfighters were "all muscle and no guts."

              Hynes spends a lot of time on his comrades, but except for one hotshot he gets close to named Joe, none really stick out, not even Hynes. Carefully written, at times beautifully, the book avoids any non-factual embellishments that might make it more readable but less true, the kind that other memoirists would defend as compensation for fading memory. The result is a flat, dry read, but one you trust to tell it like it was.

              I'm glad for the service Hynes gave his country, more perhaps than Hynes himself. But his book makes clear why wars, even when fought for the most noble of purposes, leave scars and a sense of loss that outweighs any triumph, however worthy.

              5 out of 5 stars Flights of Passage soars...........2005-05-26

              Mr. Hynes work originally attracted me because, as an aviation historian, I enjoy first person accounts. My interest was drawn to the book when he mentioned that some of his training was in Florida--my state of birth. Having noticed the town Deland in his account I acquired the volume for a check of conditions in the state during the was (having 2 uncles who were naval aviators). It was an interesting picture of the US in another era--a Florida I used to know. I was by the Deland airport (it is noted as "Deland Naval Air Station--1942-46) (We fought the war, finished it and shut down the war machine.) In fact the majority of now-civilian airports were built during WWII. This was a bittersweet tale of men who were part of a much larger effort; but didn't regard their contribution as telling.
              The last chapter has the memorable line "You can go back in space, but not back in time. Lucius B. Gravely, IV

              4 out of 5 stars A realistic account of Americans going to war.......2003-11-30

              Samuel Hynes, professor emiterius of literature at Princeton University, went to war in 1943--there simply was no alternative as he says--and in time graduated from flight school as a Marine pilot of a TBM, a torpedo bomber used for several types of missions.

              To those who went through flight school during WWII, his accounts of the trials, and sometimes failures, of a flying officer in training ring authentic, as does the sometimes pettiness of the armed forces and the hurry-up-and-wait process that dogged us as we impatiently waited to get into action. He also details the drinking, the sexual adventures, and other less savory, perhaps, actions of men at war. When he finally arrived overseas in early 1945, the actual combat was somewhat of an anti-climax. No great aerial battles, relatively few losses, and much relatively routine patrol work. In fact, the most terrifying event was after the war when a giant typhoon hit Okinawa and his base. As is true of those in service, he seems oblivious of the war other than his own small part. He was stationed, for example, on Saipan in April for two weeks or so awaiting assignment, but makes no mention of the many B-29 operations from there or neighboring Tinian against Japan.

              A curious thing about the book is that before he went overseas, he was married. Viritually nothing is said of his wife, her letters, of the relationship. Much more is said of he and his Marine buddies trying to obtain booze and other leisure pursuits, in addition to combat.. Perhaps Hynes marriage was one of those wartime marriages that didn't last. On the other hand, maybe it's none of our business since Hynes' purpose is to try and give one a realistic view of training to go to war and the event itself. In this regard he succeeds brilliantly.

              5 out of 5 stars an interesting read for adventure, history, people.......2003-09-26

              I read Samuel Hynes's THE GROWING SEASONS with a book-club, I said why don't I also read this famous novel of his together with it. It turned out to be a good idea! Flights of Passage has a lot of recounting of people's relationships, emotions. Not only it is a good 'literary' novel, it also captivates people who's interested in adventure with detail descriptions of flying. To me, it is a good novel because it offers a glimpse in American life from several different angles, the language is smooth and interesting, the story telling is truthful.

              4 out of 5 stars Talk About Situational Irony!.......2003-06-01

              By the time I got to the last page of Samuel Hynes's memoir GROWING SEASONS, I had developed such an attachment to young Sam that I was reluctant to quit reading. Luckily Hynes had written an earlier memoir about his days as a dive bomber pilot during WWII entitled FLIGHTS OF PASSAGE. Imagine my surprise when I spotted the book already in my bookcase. I'd read it when it was published in 1988. I had to read it again.
              Hynes writes with such humility it's easy to put yourself in his shoes. Sam is continually worried about being cut from the flight program and sent to Great Lakes to train as an enlisted man. He also doesn't shirk from describing the times he crashed his plane or did something stupid, trying to show off. Although he went on over a hundred missions on Okinawa, he isn't sure his contribution to the war effort was worth that much. He's disappointed when he's left behind when his squadron goes on a bombing run of Japan.
              As an ex-Navy man myself I can relate to a lot of what Hynes went through: the depressing bus stations, the sexual braggadocio, the feeling of vertigo when changing duty stations, the hurry-up-and-wait mentality, the obsession with drinking and playing cards.
              About the only problem I have with the book is that the other pilots don't really come alive for me--I had trouble remembering who they were. Sam also gets married (at nineteen) before going overseas, but we never get to know his wife. He doesn't say much about her letters; he doesn't even seem to miss her. I had an ominous feeling about that marriage.
              Perhaps the most memorable part of the book is when the war ends and Hynes and his fellow pilots are sitting around waiting for orders and they're caught in a typhoon! It blows away several tents and several men are killed. Talk about situational irony.
              Flights of Passage: Reflections of a World War II Aviator
              Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
              • An Interesting Tale of Aviation Service in the Pacific
              Flights of Passage: Reflections of a World War II Aviator
              Samuel Hynes
              Manufacturer: Naval Inst Pr
              ProductGroup: Book
              Binding: Hardcover

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              ASIN: 087021215X

              Customer Reviews:

              4 out of 5 stars An Interesting Tale of Aviation Service in the Pacific.......2001-12-28

              Since I first read this book back when it first was published in 1988 by the Naval Institute Press, this review is not based on immediate memory.
              The story covers the author's service as a fighter pilot in the Central Pacific Theatre, both on carriers and on dusty tropic atolls. It is excellently written and is one of the few aviation personal narratives in my collection as most of my interest is in the ground wars in the Pacific and SW Pacific Theatres of WW II.
              I remember it as well worth my reading and it should be sought out if you are interested.
              Flights of Passage: Recollections of a World War II Aviator
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                Flights of Passage: Recollections of a World War II Aviator
                Samuel Hynes
                Manufacturer: Pocket Books
                ProductGroup: Book
                Binding: Mass Market Paperback
                ASIN: B000JDA07G
                Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
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                  Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
                  A. M. Sperber & Eric Lax , Michael Dobbs , Rinker Buck , and Laura Evans
                  Manufacturer: Reader's Digest Association
                  ProductGroup: Book
                  Binding: Hardcover
                  ASIN: B000EHXMUO

                  Product Description

                  This book is a compilation of four books bound into 1 book.
                  Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
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                    Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
                    A. M. Sperber & Eric Lax , Michael Dobbs , Rinker Buck , and Laura Evans
                    Manufacturer: Reader's Digest Association
                    ProductGroup: Book
                    Binding: Hardcover
                    ASIN: B000GA0LHG
                    Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
                    Average customer rating: Not rated
                      Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
                      A. M. Sperber & Eric Lax , Michael Dobbs , Rinker Buck , and Laura Evans
                      Manufacturer: Reader's Digest Association
                      ProductGroup: Book
                      Binding: Hardcover
                      ASIN: B000JC0400
                      Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
                      Average customer rating: Not rated
                        Bogart/Down with Big Brother/Flight of Passage: A Memoir/The Climb of My Life (Reader's Digest Today's Best Nonfiction, Volume 44: 1997)
                        A. M. Sperber & Eric Lax , Michael Dobbs , Rinker Buck , and Laura Evans
                        Manufacturer: Reader's Digest Association
                        ProductGroup: Book
                        Binding: Hardcover
                        ASIN: B000P6I4BQ
                        Flight of Passage
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                          Flight of Passage
                          Rinker Buck
                          Manufacturer: LITTLE BROWN & CO @
                          ProductGroup: Book
                          Binding: Paperback
                          ASIN: B000SMOAE2
                          Flights of Passage  Reflections of a World War II Aviator
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                            Flights of Passage Reflections of a World War II Aviator
                            Samuel Hynes
                            Manufacturer: Naval Institute Press
                            ProductGroup: Book
                            Binding: Hardcover
                            ASIN: B000J0K8FS

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