True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals
Average customer rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • A Must have Book for Friends and Families of Transgendered Persons
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  • True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals
  • Understanding Transgenders
  • True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism
True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals
Mildred L. Brown , and Chloe Ann Rounsley
Manufacturer: Jossey-Bass
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0787967025

Book Description

Combines authoritative information and humanitarian insight into the transsexual experience

Filled with wisdom and understanding, this groundbreaking book paints a vivid portrait of conflicts transsexuals face on a daily basis--and the courage they must summon as they struggle to reveal their true being to themselves and others. True Selves offers valuable guidance for those who are struggling to understand these people and their situations.

Using real life stories, actual letters, and other compelling examples, the authors give a clear understanding of what it means to be transsexual. They also give other useful advice, including how to deal compassionately with these commonly misunderstood individuals--by keeping an open heart, communicating fears, pain and support, respecting choices.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars A Must have Book for Friends and Families of Transgendered Persons.......2007-10-10

The book, True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism, is a well-written and informative tool. It is written through the eyes of a professional who seems to have such love and understanding of her transgendered patients. I bought several copies to send to relatives while in the process of educating them on a very misunderstood subject. Of the 5 books I purchased on transsexualism, this one seems to be the most appropriate and an excellent choice to use for the general public in explaining my loved one's new self.

5 out of 5 stars Must Read.......2007-05-22

This book is excellent as an introduction to the topic. It covers all the topics in a matter-of-fact kind of way.

5 out of 5 stars True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals.......2007-05-17

Definately a keeper in the FTM personal library. Filled with a lot of insight, and information in regards to any FTM considering transition, as well as answers for family members, friends, and co-workers.

5 out of 5 stars Understanding Transgenders.......2007-05-10

If you have a friend or family member who is transgender, this book will help you understand what they are going through.

4 out of 5 stars True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism.......2007-05-07

As a grandmother of a transgendered individual, I found this book very helpful. It is informative, unbiased and yet sympathetic to all persons involved in trying to understand and help a person decide what steps to take next after affirming his/her transgendered status. It offers scientific facts as well as personal annectdotes. It recognizes the genuine confusion, hurt and often guilt experienced by loving relatives. In other words, it offers support not only to the transgendered individual but to counselors and family members as well.

This is the only book of its kind that I have found, so I have nothing to which to compare it. It also clarifies the diffrences among gay and lesbian people, cross dressers and truly transgendered folk. They are not the same and all deserve to be treated with respect.
The Dragonfly Door
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • The warm, emotional colors of award-winning artist Barbara L. Gibson
  • Jewel's Reading Excellence Review: Helps children understand nature's life cycle
  • A Message of Hope for Children Who Are Grieving
  • Beautiful and excellent for all who grieve
The Dragonfly Door
John Adams
Manufacturer: Feather Rock Books, Inc.
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Binding: Hardcover

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ASIN: 1934066117

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Parents will help children identify the beauty and hope in all cycles of life as they follow two insect friends, Lea and Nym, and the struggles one of them endures when her friend disappears. This is a tender story about loss and change, written to help parents express their views about life and death. The book may serve many purposes, such as comforting a grieving child who has lost someone close or providing facts about dragonflies to inquisitive minds. Lea's transformation into a dragonfly may even be used as a metaphor for life-after-death. The Dragonfly Door is beautifully illustrated by award-winning artist Barbara L. Gibson. The book is cherished by parents, grandparents and teachers. It was recently brought to life as a mini-play in Alabama to help children cope with the loss of their classmates. The following is an excerpt from the book: While Nym slept, she heard Lea's voice saying, "Follow me, Nym. I'm going to show you where I am." "Will I see you again?" Nym asked. "Only when it's time for you to die too," Lea replied. "You won't see me in the marsh ever again. But let me show you what I will look like the next time you see me. Here, close your eyes." Nym closed her eyes. "Now look at me," Lea said. Nym opened her eyes and saw ...

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars The warm, emotional colors of award-winning artist Barbara L. Gibson.......2007-09-07

The debut children's picturebook of author John Adams, The Dragonfly Door dares to confront serious topics - of loss, death, grieving, and transition. Nym and Lea are two close insect friends, but one day after Nym yells at Lea, Lea disappears. Nym searches everywhere for her missing friend, and can't find her. At last Nym falls asleep, grief-stricken, and finally hears Lea's voice one more time. "'I died and went to this special place,' Lea said, her voice full of love. 'But I didn't want you to leave,' Nym pleaded. 'I'm sorry I yelled.' 'I know you're sorry,' Lea assured her. 'I left because my water nymph body died while I was picking flowers in the reeds, not because you yelled.'" The warm, emotional colors of award-winning artist Barbara L. Gibson illustrate this highly recommended picturebook for sharing the bittersweet realities of life with young people.

5 out of 5 stars Jewel's Reading Excellence Review: Helps children understand nature's life cycle.......2007-05-10

John Adams brilliantly invites the reader into the world of Nymphs and Dragonflies to explore the changes that take place when Nym's friend goes to a special place.

When I had lost a family member I had read a wonderful story called, "The Water Bug Story." John Adams adds a fresh approach to this story by focusing on friendship loss and giving a voice to his characters. With the help of Gibson's eye-catching nature illustrations, "The Dragon Fly Door" answers general questions surrounding loss, such as feelings about loss, what happens to the nymph's body when he dies, and how a nymph is transformed into a dragonfly.

Adams creatively normalizes typical friendship rivalry and takes the reader on a nature journey to discover that one chooses to resolve conflict, loss, and changes in different ways. Adams concludes the book with uncomplicated educational facts for the inquisitive science mind.

This is a great educational tool for parents, grandparents or professionals to use to help explain the uncontrollable life cycle changes and loss.

Reviewed by Jewel Sample, MS
Award-winning author of Flying Hugs and Kisses(2006), also translated: Besos y Abrazos Al Aire(2006, Spanish edition) and Flying Hugs and Kisses Activity Book(2007)

5 out of 5 stars A Message of Hope for Children Who Are Grieving.......2007-02-26

As President of a nonprofit organization that reaches out to those who are grieving, I was very pleased to read a book such as The Dragonfly Door. This book provides a much needed way to offer children (and adults) a message of hope following the death of a loved one.

Children can relate to the playful nature of Nym and Lea who are the two young nymph friends, the sorrow of Nym when Lea dies, and the comforting feeling when when Nym realizes that he will one day see Lea again as a dragonfly, when he too has made his transformation into a dragonfly.

Our nonprofit organization recommends this book so highly that we have decided to make it available for purchase at all of our events.
-Valerie Marquardt

5 out of 5 stars Beautiful and excellent for all who grieve.......2007-02-18

I received this wonderfully beautiful book on the 8th anniversary of my son's graduation to Heaven ... that evening, I was able to read it with his daughter, who is now 9... I believe she gained another understanding of her Very Own Daddy in a beautiful place that we have not seen just yet ... and though she already knew he is waiting for her, this was another good reminder of that ... I was unaware of the dragonfly's life cycle and was so blessed to see how it seemingly parallels this life and the next. Thank you, John, for a wonderful way to help us all in our continuing journey with grief and the Hope we can have.
Parenting Through Crisis: Helping Kids in Times of Loss, Grief, and Change
Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
  • A Good Parenting Book
  • Colorosso Does It Again!
Parenting Through Crisis: Helping Kids in Times of Loss, Grief, and Change
Barbara Coloroso
Manufacturer: Collins
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0060958146
Release Date: 2001-09-04

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Sooner or later, all families are faced with an emergency or two; some families, in fact, are created through crisis. Death, illness, divorce, adoption: these are biggies, and Barbara Coloroso's (Kids Are Worth It!) book Parenting Through Crisis manages to turn these mountains into smaller slopes, if not the proverbial molehills we hope for.

The chapters of this book are arranged by type of crisis--quite helpful if you're looking for information on dealing with adoption and don't feel up to reading how to handle the death of a sibling. Inside each chapter, you'll find specific stages that children of different ages may go through in processing their difficulties, along with helpful parenting techniques, ways of creating a positive dialogue with all family members, and the occasional suggestion for particular legal issues. Pages are sprinkled heavily with appropriate quotes from many sources, and many parents may find a bit of memorization helpful in keeping their tempers. One chapter contains advice from Henry Ford that seems equally appropriate for assembly line or family drama: "Do not find fault, find a remedy." Coloroso encourages open communication at every opportunity, and her expertise in nonviolent conflict resolution shows itself with her suggestions of effective discipline and problem solving that leave blame and punishment in the dust. New language choices are a part of her techniques, and words like "co-parenting" and "primary responsibility" are emphasized instead of old school phrases like "joint" or "sole" custody. Parents in difficult situations should find a few quiet hours to spend with this book--it's not one to be quickly absorbed, but one to be used with planning and patience. --Jill Lightner

Book Description

In this companion to her bestselling Kids are Worth It!, parenting educator Barbara Coloroso shows how parents can help children find a way through grief and sorrow during the difficult times of death, illness, divorce, and other upheavals. She offers concrete, compassionate ideas for supporting children as they navigate the emotional ups and downs that accompany loss, assisting them in developing their own constructive ways of responding to what life hands them.

At the heart of her approach is what she calls the T.A.0. of Family -- Time, Affection, and Optimism -- coupled with her deep understanding of how people move through grief. Barbara Coloroso's clear answers to difficult questions are enriched by uplifting humor and insightful anecdotes from her own experiences as a Franciscan nun, mother of three, and her thirty years as a parenting educator. With this Guide in hand, parents can feel assured that they are responding with wisdom and love when children need them most.

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars A Good Parenting Book.......2001-06-24

This book is most useful to parents dealing with specific crises. A good reference.

4 out of 5 stars Colorosso Does It Again!.......2001-01-25

In this fantastic follow up to Kids Are Worth It! author Barbara Colorosso discusses how parents can help their children cope with changes like deaths within the family, divorce, remarriage, illness, and disability. The book is peppered with inspiring quotes, humor, and personal stories.

The book gives great suggestions for parents to support their children through difficult times. The author uses what she calls the TAO of Family (Time, Affection and Optimism) as a guide for each of the subjects she discusses. She also reviews information on the three styles of families and the difference between discipline and punishment. She does expand on this by talking about restorative justice, which is very interesting. She does a good job of giving readers a sense of empowerment.

My one minor complaint about the book (in fact, this is the only thing that has kept me from giving it five stars) is that some of the material was repetitive. She looks at each issue from a developmental perspective. She even considers the impact on the unborn in some chapters, which is impressive (I wish she had done so in all chapters). But she could have done one chapter on developmental stages instead, because the impact is quite similar regardless of whether the specific issue is divorce or death. I can't fault her for restating the information about types of families from Kids are Worth It! because that information is so useful it bears restating, and not everyone who reads this book will have read the first one.
Helping Families Change
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    Helping Families Change
    Virginia M. Satir
    Manufacturer: Jason Aronson
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    With an emphasis on learning to change through other modalities than speech, this book discusses the importance of non-verbal body experience and awareness of kinetic cues in interpersonal relationships. A number of meditative exercises are included.
    Helping Children Cope With Change and Loss (Overcoming Common Problems)
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      Helping Children Cope With Change and Loss (Overcoming Common Problems)
      Rosemary Wells
      Manufacturer: Sheldon Press
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      Advice for parents struggling to help their children cope with the changes they are facing in their lives.

      * The book will help families through particularly stressful times

      * Takes a gentle approach, explaining and discussing types of change and making suggestions

      Children face all sorts of changes at various points in their lives, an almost inevitably find this change stressful and frequently difficult. This book discusses different sorts of change and suggests ways in which parents can help children cope with it successfully, whether it is moving house, gaining a step parent, going to `big school', or even winning the lottery.
      Physical Change & Aging: A Guide for the Helping Professions
      Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
      • Physical Change & Aging: A Guide fo the Helping Professions
      Physical Change & Aging: A Guide for the Helping Professions
      Sue V. Saxon , and Mary Jean Etten
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      Customer Reviews:

      5 out of 5 stars Physical Change & Aging: A Guide fo the Helping Professions.......2004-05-26

      A well written resource providing an in depth understanding of human physiology and the variations due to the aging process. In selecting this particular book, I evaluated numerous other publications which provided similar perspectives on the aging process but lacked the presentation of Saxon & Etten. I have found Physical Change & Aging to be easy to read, informative and a valuable resource in understanding the aging process.
      Helping Couples Change: A Social Learning Approach to Marital Therapy (Guilford Family Therapy Series)
      Average customer rating: 2 out of 5 stars
      • Needs moderization
      • Needs moderization
      Helping Couples Change: A Social Learning Approach to Marital Therapy (Guilford Family Therapy Series)
      Richard B. Stuart
      Manufacturer: The Guilford Press
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      ASIN: 1572309857

      Book Description

      Now available in paper for the first time, this classic work presents a a structured, rigorously tested, six-stage strategy for improving intimate relationships. Therapists and counselors will benefit from practical, step-by-step guidance for deciding how, why, and when to employ such widely cited Stuart techniques as "caring days," communication improvements, behavioral contracting, the "powergram" procedure for decision making, and conflict containment. These techniques not only provide a program for identifying and producing positive behavior change, but give the therapist the tools to assess therapeutic outcome and empirically validate the efficacy of change. A new preface to the paperback edition situates the book within the contemporary couple therapy landscape and reflects on the continuing evolution of the author's approach.

      Customer Reviews:

      2 out of 5 stars Needs moderization.......2001-10-18

      This book contains SOME very helpful information, but the info is simply not well organized or very readable, i.e., specifically, it could truly use a wholesale re-editing & modernization of its presentation and content. Over 20 yrs. have passed since the book's publication, and most of the material would benefit substantially from a comptemporary presentation with "reader appeal" in mind, fresh examples, inclusion of a section on the important topic of rebuilding of trust (after extramarital affair/s), etc. This relatively expensive book is really boring, unexciting, and somewhat lacking in content, as is. That's a shame!

      2 out of 5 stars Needs moderization.......2001-10-18

      This book contains SOME very helpful information, but the info is simply not well organized or very readable, i.e., specifically, it could truly use a wholesale re-editing & modernization of its presentation and content. Over 20 yrs. have passed since the book's publication, and most of the material would benefit substantially from a contemporary presentation with "reader appeal" in mind, fresh examples, inclusion of a section on the important topic of rebuilding of trust (after extramarital affair/s), etc. This relatively expensive book is really boring, unexciting, and somewhat lacking in content, as is. That's a shame!
      Family Guide: A Workbook Based on the Million-Copy Best Seller Preparing for Adolescence: Helping Parents and Kids Survive the Coming Years of Change, Together
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        James C. Dobson
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        Helping Families to Change
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          Virginia; Stachowiak, James & Taschman, Harvey A. Satir
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          Life Cycles: Activities for Helping Children Live With Daily Change and Loss
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            Jeanne Lagorio
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            Victory on the Potomac: The Goldwater-Nichols Act Unifies the Pentagon (Texas a & M University Military History Series)
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            • Powerful study of Congress and the Pentagon
            Victory on the Potomac: The Goldwater-Nichols Act Unifies the Pentagon (Texas a & M University Military History Series)
            James R., III Locher
            Manufacturer: Texas A&M University Press
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            ". . . a comprehensive account of the battle to make the GNA a reality. Skillfully bringing to life not only the players but also the issues, Mr. Locher, who was a prime mover in framing the legislation that resulted in Goldwater-Nichols, has written the definitive history of the Act."--Washington Times

            ". . . a monumental Washington battle in prose that is both exciting for experts and informative for novices . . . offers a unique historical lesson in rational decision making and civilian control of the military, and reminds us that the United States never pauses on the path to perfection."--William S. Cohen, former Secretary of Defense

            "A definitive case study of the most important and successful American defense legislation of the twentieth century. Victory on the Potomac is probably the best informed book we are ever going to get on this critical chapter in the history of U.S. military policy. As such, it is must reading for military professionals and civilian defense policy experts alike."--Air and Space Power Journal

            ". . . a tale of the careful preparation and tenacity required to overturn an entrenched bureaucratic position . . . lays out the manner in which a handful of senior officers, vigorously supported by farsighted members of Congress, managed to overcome bitter institutional resistance to pass the Goldwater-Nichols Act--which embodied a veritable organizational revelation."--James R. Schlesinger, former Secretary of Defense

            ". . . provides a superb insight into how the system works in the marble, stone, and cement battlefields of Washington. For anyone interested in Congress, the Department of Defense, or the White House, this book provides a unique view into details not revealed in textbooks or biographies."--Proceedings

            Customer Reviews:

            3 out of 5 stars Required reading, but with a big caveat.......2006-03-18

            My rating is in the middle because the book should be required reading for anyone who wants to know how Goldwater-Nichols came about, however, at the same time, it is extremely biased in its delivery, analysis and conclusions. The author was appointed by Senators Nunn (D) and Goldwater (R) to be the senior reorganization staffer who, "led the team that helped congress 'get smart' on this complex but critically important subject." Because of Locher's involvement from the Act's beginning through to its approval, which gives him unique insight, he has a vested interest in presenting his justifications for the Act in a positive light. This is best seen in his portrayals of the principals involved; those who supported reform are heroes who were not afraid to stand up to the establishment and the institutionalized bureaucracy. Those who opposed Goldwater-Nichols were more interested in their own power and often presented emotional rather than factual or issues based arguments.

            Unfortunately, the book was published in 2002, which means the work was done before the US invasion of Iraq in 2003; it would be interesting to see his analysis of the relationship between the SECDEF and the JCS now.

            Bottom line: if you're interested in how Goldwater-Nichols evolved, buy the book; I did, and I have no regrets. But read it with a (big) grain of salt.

            5 out of 5 stars Gripping and Insightful, "Victory" for Studying Policymaking.......2003-01-13

            This is quite easily one of the best books I've ever read on the creation of public policy. Locher paints a full and colorful picture of the military reform efforts culminating in the Goldwater-Nichols Act. I never realized what a role the Beirut/Lebanon operations played in creating an atmosphere in which military reform began to be viewed as necessary, and I found both the strategy and actions used to push the legislation through the Senate Armed Services Committee in 1985-86 particularly fascinating. With regards to balancing personal insights and meticulous research, in my opinion "Victory on the Potomac" is unequalled, and I consider it one of the top prizes in my personal library. If your interests include public policy, successful reform attempts or the organization of the U.S. military, you will find this book to be an entertaining and informative treasure.

            5 out of 5 stars Powerful study of Congress and the Pentagon.......2002-08-03

            Jim Locher tells the fascinating story of how Congress forced the Pentagon to undergo major reform in the mid-1980s. Locher, who was a major participant in the process, tells the inside story of the Goldwater-Nichols reforms and really takes the gloves off. Locher is a careful researcher and skillful writer who demonstrates vividly the courage of Senators Barry Goldwater and Sam Nunn, Congressman Bill Nichols, Admiral Bill Crowe and others. Locher highlights both the brilliance and the manipulative skills of Secretary of the Navy John Lehman in the debates and interactions between the Congress and the Pentagon. . My only criticism is that Locher is a bit too critical of Secretary of Defense Caspar Weinberger who did so much to build up the military during the early 1980s. Must reading for all who will work with or within the Pentagon or the Congress in the years ahead
            Victory on the Potomac: The Goldwater-Nichols Act Unifies the Pentagon. (Net Assessment).(Book Review): An article from: Air & Space Power Journal
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              Victory on the Potomac: The Goldwater-Nichols Act Unifies the Pentagon. (Net Assessment).(Book Review): An article from: Air & Space Power Journal
              Dr. Jeffrey Record
              Manufacturer: U.S. Air Force
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              Binding: Digital

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              Release Date: 2005-07-30

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              This digital document is an article from Air & Space Power Journal, published by U.S. Air Force on September 22, 2002. The length of the article is 646 words. The page length shown above is based on a typical 300-word page. The article is delivered in HTML format and is available in your Amazon.com Digital Locker immediately after purchase. You can view it with any web browser.

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              Title: Victory on the Potomac: The Goldwater-Nichols Act Unifies the Pentagon. (Net Assessment).(Book Review)
              Author: Dr. Jeffrey Record
              Publication: Air & Space Power Journal (Refereed)
              Date: September 22, 2002
              Publisher: U.S. Air Force
              Volume: 16 Issue: 3 Page: 120(1)

              Article Type: Book Review

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